Friday, June 3, 2016

Heartache  friendship  love

          We have all experienced heartache,  love and even true friendship in our life by the time we turn 18, some maybe have got the experience  a little  later and some may have it before,  but we receive it ones in a life time.  We may think that having 20 boyfriends or girlfriends means that we have fallen in love 20 different  times and always had our heart broken  but it's all mearly just experience  to prepare us for  the  ups and downs  about to come further in your life.

          There was a Greek philosopher called Platos,who in his  work 'the Symposium'  wrote that the first humans that were created had 2 faces, 4 legs,  and 4 arms.  Seeing this Zeus was afraid of rivalry so to end it he shot his lighting bolt at them and this created 2 different bodies out of one soul. In the Bible they are known as Adam and Eve,  the first girl and boy on earth.                                        
                Later on Plato's student,  Aristotle  comprehended this idea into a saying in one of his works ,
          ' love is composed of a single soul dwelling  in two bodies.'
                   - Aristotle
       This is the only reason people  go around in search of true love,  to find their second half.  In this search they have many ups and down and a ton of heartaches along the way but also sometimes  they find a true friendship  also.  A friendship  that last for a lifetime no matter how short it is. This friendship is one which cannot be turned into love but can only end at lust.
                    There is a mutual triangle  between  friendship love and heartache.  These three are BFF .  It's technically  a chain reaction in which a person who doesn't belong to your family but is really close to your heart is involved  along with  you. This starts with a mutual friendship,  a one which is fun to have, then turns into simple lust,  a point  where you  don't  really  know what you really want,  then may turn into love but if it's not true love then heartache comes in middle and destroys technically  everything. But if the bond of friendship is strong  enough to make it through the heartache and regain the trust then it is the best thing to have.
         With that,  I conclude  and say live life the way you wanna, love the people you wanna,  and never give up.