Heartache  friendship  love

          We have all experienced heartache,  love and even true friendship in our life by the time we turn 18, some maybe have got the experience  a little  later and some may have it before,  but we receive it ones in a life time.  We may think that having 20 boyfriends or girlfriends means that we have fallen in love 20 different  times and always had our heart broken  but it's all mearly just experience  to prepare us for  the  ups and downs  about to come further in your life.

          There was a Greek philosopher called Platos,who in his  work 'the Symposium'  wrote that the first humans that were created had 2 faces, 4 legs,  and 4 arms.  Seeing this Zeus was afraid of rivalry so to end it he shot his lighting bolt at them and this created 2 different bodies out of one soul. In the Bible they are known as Adam and Eve,  the first girl and boy on earth.                                        
                Later on Plato's student,  Aristotle  comprehended this idea into a saying in one of his works ,
          ' love is composed of a single soul dwelling  in two bodies.'
                   - Aristotle
       This is the only reason people  go around in search of true love,  to find their second half.  In this search they have many ups and down and a ton of heartaches along the way but also sometimes  they find a true friendship  also.  A friendship  that last for a lifetime no matter how short it is. This friendship is one which cannot be turned into love but can only end at lust.
                    There is a mutual triangle  between  friendship love and heartache.  These three are BFF .  It's technically  a chain reaction in which a person who doesn't belong to your family but is really close to your heart is involved  along with  you. This starts with a mutual friendship,  a one which is fun to have, then turns into simple lust,  a point  where you  don't  really  know what you really want,  then may turn into love but if it's not true love then heartache comes in middle and destroys technically  everything. But if the bond of friendship is strong  enough to make it through the heartache and regain the trust then it is the best thing to have.
         With that,  I conclude  and say live life the way you wanna, love the people you wanna,  and never give up. 

The life of a teenage girl

The life of a teenage girl.


           Well , so recently i have been thinking that why is a girls life so messed up and a guys life as smooth as silk . I mean if you see a normal guys life there arent that many ups and downs as compared to a girls . So heres a list of things i made from a very carefull evaluation and a ton of experience on why a girls lives are  so meesed  up.

1....... fandom craze -
                           One of the most dangerous thing in a girls life is fandoms. If you see mostly all the fandoms in this world contain 99 % girls cause girls have a very low emotional streanght when it comes to celebs. If their best friend breaks the friendship with a girl the girl wont mind , but she will defienatly mind if luke hemmings had a girlfriend........ typical of girls all around the world.(including me).

2........Fictional love -
                          This kind of love usually takes place for the any guy charecter of a book or movie (it takes place for the charecter not the actor in role). A girl reads percy jackson and without even having a proper discription about luke's appearence she imagines him as a six pack abed hot guy .but when they see the movie they realise the look is not like what they expected to be , but are way better and even though they fall in love with te actor in role they are even more in love with the real charecter...........hence the fictional love....

3...............High School -
                                 High school is the most messed up part of a persons life , girl or boy, everyone can feel the heat build up when they come in high school. For some girls high school is about late night parties and hook ups , for some it is about getting good grades and getting a scholership and joining a great university, for some it is about having great friends to hangout with and gossip with, and for some high school is thier worst nightmare cause they think that they are not capable of anything , getting goodmmarks is out of reach , making friends is a nightmare cause they know they will be teased by them, and having a proper relationship is compeletly impossible cause no one likes them......................
Hence high school is a horrible part of a girls life cause we cant even decide a proper prom dress within a week.

4..............Parents
                     This is not something i  m writing to be offensive to all the parents but personally i feel that parents play a huge role in everyones life. Now, when you are a teenage girl or boy (mainly girls) your parents boss over you more , now since we are talking about girls in this case we will take the example of a girl. Now, if you wear shorts and tank top outside your house and your mom sees you you are most likely to get in trouble, why? Its all because of the society you live in . Your mom is from a difgerent era of though and you are from a different one, hence the generation gap, which is always the main reason of fights between teens and their parents.............hence parents are one of the million reason a girls life is so messed up cause girls dont get as much freedom as boys do.

            These are just four of the many reason that a girls life is messed up.   Now , i still need to figure out the rest of the reasons cause , man i m only 15 . So stay tuned too find out more about a teens horrendous life............


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fanfictions

          what is a fanfiction??? I have been asked this same question by many people at many points in life.but most of the time I was asked by boy who I told about my love for fanfiction. if you guys don't know the meaning of fanfiction then here it is.

                  Fan fiction or fanfiction (also abbreviated to fan fic, fanfic, or fic) is fiction about characters or settings from an original work of fiction, created by fans of that work rather than by its creator. It is a popular form of fan labor, particularly since the advent of the Internet.well that's just a definition I copied from Wikipedia.th ereal definition of fanfictions I thinks is the stupid crazy fictional stories created by people like me.

                      I have been reading these fan fictions for over 3 years now and I used to write them to . my books were dedicated and based on a British Irish boyband called one direction which I m in love with. then one day I suddenly realized that I cant do this , I mean this stuff is for people who think u can only find true love with famous people or fictional characters these are the  people who always waste their time in fanning over stuff. this kind of people get their true love but they don't see it cause they are to involved in fictional stuff leaving their own true love alone forever and if you are that kind of a person then no offense it the truth and the truth hurts.so , for all u people who fall under this category I have just one thing to say. STOP IT RIGHT AWAY , cause by doing this you are wasting your time and breaking your own heart along with the heart of the person who is truly in love with you.
                    You see guys, Fan Fiction are like Disney princess stories. Your not gonna get anything like that with their fav person because (a) they are to old (b)they are just out of reach. but before even doing this I have an advice for you. if you can't get a perfect relation with your idols then at least believe that there is something in this world that is magical. I m speaking with experience but its your choice if you wanna take my advice or not but it's just the way it is. you may fall on love with someone in your life and believe me it would be the world's most magical thing ever but it would be even more magical if you keep believing in yourself. if you believe that there are angels and miracles in this world. no matter if you don’t believe in god or supernatural powers but if you believe in angels and miracles you will surely be one yourself maybe not for your own but you will be another persons angel and their miracle. Don’t rush to find it and slow down and let the right time come.

                            

                          Sorry that was really of topic but that’s true.  So I say that you read fan fictions not a problem but don’t stop believing in yourself and the stuff I told you about in the above paragraph I m not gonna repeat it .all you have to do is believe……………………………….

     BELIEVE